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Making Friends

By Win Win Jan 5, 2026
Making Friends
A practical approach to building community when everything is new (and you're tired).

Making friends as an adult is oddly like job searching: rejection feels personal, but it's mostly logistics.


A simple approach

  • Pick one recurring activity
  • Show up 4 times
  • Ask one person to grab coffee
Community plan

Consistency feels awkward until it feels normal.


Quick checklist

  • Pick one goal
  • Break it into weekly deliverables
  • Ask for feedback early
  • Ship something you can show

Next step

Pick one idea from this post and test it this week. The fastest way to get value is to turn it into a deliverable you can show someone.